Christmas is a wonderful time to think about who, what, when, where, and how we give. It’s a process that is best done with thoughtful contemplation – something that is very difficult to do in this day and age. It can be incredibly overwhelming to know who and how to give utilizing a method that utilizes mindful caring and compassion that yields results aimed toward the greatest good possible. Giving is a hot topic that pushes many buttons on many levels for many people.
I understand the concept of the importance of giving both as a giver as well as a much-needed receiver. I’m very blessed in ways many, many are not. I’m also extremely lacking in ways that others are incredibly blessed with. I’m naturally a giver, but some aren’t. I’m naturally an empathizer – I understand things from other people’s points of view, but others are completely inept at that. Many, many Americans are afraid to give in ways that once felt normal and natural. We all need to be blessed and be a blessing at one point in time. Both sides – giving and being the receiver – can be burdensome.
I’ve been asking myself constantly: Should I ask? If I am supposed to ask, when and how? Should I give even if I want to – or don’t want to? When is the best time to give? How? When is it time to give and when should I receive? Why is this whole concept and process so very, very difficult?
Please read my blog Give Smart for ideas as to how to give.